Im 29 and my wife is 24. We are married since feb 2014. We tried to have sex in the month of december 2014 for the first time and we failed.. She was not lubricating naturally despite for foreplay and we tried durex lube for lubrication. When i tried to insert my finger into her vagina she was in intense pain and she pulled my finger off. Then after few days again we tried and this time after foreplay i tried to enter her but even my penis glan was not entering and she in pain. please advice....
She might be experiencing what is called vaginismus in which the muscles around the vaginal opening contract involuntarily when penetration is attempted and make vaginal entry difficult to impossible and painful.
This is a psychosexual condition arising out of fear of penetration. There may be other reasons ex., an infection that makes entry painful.
First please see a gynaecologist rule out infections and inflammatory conditions.
In the absence of these conditions, we may consider the possibility of vaginismus and approach the problem from that perspective.
If you could contact over the phone and provide additional information, we can get a clearer picture and provide better guidance.
Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further.
Take care
Regards,
Dr Poosha DVR, Sexologist
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What Causes Pain In Vagina During Intercourse?
Hello, She might be experiencing what is called vaginismus in which the muscles around the vaginal opening contract involuntarily when penetration is attempted and make vaginal entry difficult to impossible and painful. This is a psychosexual condition arising out of fear of penetration. There may be other reasons ex., an infection that makes entry painful. First please see a gynaecologist rule out infections and inflammatory conditions. In the absence of these conditions, we may consider the possibility of vaginismus and approach the problem from that perspective. If you could contact over the phone and provide additional information, we can get a clearer picture and provide better guidance. Hope I have answered your query. Let me know if I can assist you further. Take care Regards, Dr Poosha DVR, Sexologist