My husband and I have been married 23 years and I have had four kids by him. My youngest is now ten years old, I m 41. I have only ever been with him. I never had pain during intercourse until about two years ago. Now it hurts where my uterus is and my pelvic area gets swollen and sore afterwards even when he is being gentle. As soon as I almost climax the pain gets bad to where I feel like I m going to faint because I get dizzy. I had a scan of my stomach done about three years ago, I had my gall bladder and appendix removed about two years ago. I was told at the time that it appeared my uterus was swollen but then they said they guessed I was fine since I had four kids they said I was normal