Hi
Welcome to HCM
I appreciate your concerns for the itchy holes with puss.
I have gone through your problems described in your query.
I am of the opinion that both of you might be having fistulas in ano.
A fistula-in-ano is a hollow tract lined with granulation tissue, connecting a primary opening inside the
anal canal to a secondary opening in the perianal skin.
Most fistulas are thought to arise as a result of infection of the anal glands with resultant
abscess which is recurrent in nature.
You are therefore advised to consult a surgeon for proper examination and relevant investigations like fistulogram which is done to find out the extent of the tract between the two openings.
The fistulas have to be removed surgically with total excision of the tracts to prevent recurrent infection. Surgical removal can only be attempted after the infection has been controlled with a course of appropriate antibiotics.
Hope this answers your query.
A feed back is appreciated.