Thanks for your question on Healthcare Magic. I can understand your concern. You both are definitely having sexually transmitted infection (STI). So better to consult gynecologist and get done urinary microscopic examination and clinical examination of genitals. Avoid moisture and perspiration in private parts. Keep proper hygiene of private parts. Wear only cotton undergarments. You both may need antibiotics on the basis of urine report. Hope I have solved your query. I will be happy to help you further. Wishing good health to both of you. Thanks.