I am 39 yr old female who in april 2010 had an ablation and tubal ligation, up until 9 months ago i did not have a cycle, now every 28 days i bleed for 3 days, yes it is lighter than pre-ablation, but comes every month. I have a younger boyfriend and well, in January 2015, i have two periods, they were a lighter heavier than normal, but did what they always do, and in February 2015 i had one day of a pale pink spot it came one time and than that night when we had intercourse i just wiped blood. My boobs feel full, look bigger, i have had cramping, sickness all the time day and night, stomach tightens when i eat, have to pee and after intercouse. its a weird tighness in my lower stoamch at my pelvic. when i press on my pelvic bone, its harder than normal. i have had headaches off and on, and if i get up to fast i get dizzy or sit too fast i get dizzy. i have had this thin clear discharge that has no smell. my lower back hurts, and i do pee a lot more than normal, even waking up two times in the middle of the night, and i dont even go to bed untill 2 am. i am just curious, my bf said that i am much "wetter" these days.