I have had irregular periods since I started getting periods, and then I became pregnant last year, and at 12 weeks and no heartbeat, I lost the baby I was regular every 28 days, and that lasted for about 3 to 4 months, then I went back to being irregular, my husband and I have been trying again since then, and nothing yet...could something be wrong with either one of us?....it took 9 months the first time to get pregnant, and know it will be a year at the end of this month.....I am having cramps, and sore breasts, I know in order to get pregnant you need to ovulate, and regular periods would help with knowing when I ovulate, I just simply need help for the next step, I don t want to have to take birth control pills to get regular....help!!