Hi, Thanks for posting in HCM. I understand your concern. Based on the description, it appears that your problem associated with getting proper erection is more of psychological problem than physical one. You need to develop more confidence by practicing behavioral therapy like pauze and squeeze technique regularly. Also, take in your diet milk, papaya, almonds, dates, saffron and honey, which are known to improve blood supply to the penis. You can take Tablet. Tadalafil to get proper erection when necessary. Control anxiety by practicing meditation regularly. Gradually, you should gain confidence and overcome this problem. Hope the information provided would be helpful. All the best.