Hello, I am 55 years old and I am experiencing the joys of menopause. I am saying this with the slightest sarcasm as this has been awful. I am newly married after being a widow for 20 years during which time I was not sexually active and now having sexual relations with my Husband is nothing but terrible, awful pain and there is always blood after and then it takes a couple days to recover, sometimes I will even present with a little blood in the toilet after urinating. I am sure that this is a combination of being sexually inactive for over 20 years and being in Menopause. I had a hysterectomy due to endometriosis and recently had an ultrasound which showed a mass, cyst on my right ovary which has grown since my last ultrasound 1 year ago. My question, is the bleeding I have had after sex normal, and should I be scared that I may have developed ovarian cancer over this last year? Thank you, I am very anxious to hear your professional medical opinion.