Hello You fondled her breast but you can t get HIV infection even she was HIV infected . She touched your penis and its tip with bare handed , but you can t get an infection because in vitro HIV can t survive . Now she gave you a wet kiss ,but saliva in mouth is having anti retro viral properties ,so in this way , you can t get an HIV infection. Still you are very worried but this is natural and I also recommend you please get in p24 ( pcr dna ) antigen antibodies test for HIV confirmation ( nucleic acid amplification ). Antibodies to HIV begin to appear within 2 weeks of infection, and the period of time between initial infection and development of detectateble antibodies is rarely 3 months. So after 2 weeks you can get this test. Good luck.