Hello, I am happy to help you with your question. This is a very exciting time for you as you begin to start a family.
What you are describing sounds like a yeast infection. Sometimes I see this as an adherent whitish discharge on the outside of the labia and extending up around the clitorus.
The Dettrol is an antibacterial soap. This might work to cleanse the area off, but the antibacterial nature of the soap might also contribute to the development of vaginal yeast infections
. Here is what I might recommend to someone like you:
1. Go ahead and try the diluted solution to clean the discharge off the outside
2. Start a course of Monistat or some other over the counter yeast treatment and spread a small amount of the cream on the outside as well
3. If this does not help over the next few days, then contact your OB/GYN