Hello, My son just turned 12 and he is changing at a phenomenal rate and I cannot understand him. He use to be your typical good, polite kid who obeys and applies the rules. As soon as he turned 12, he is not worried about school anymore. He lies to me about his homework. Nothing works with him, no encouragement, no consequence. He is nonchalant all the time, nothing is more important then his social life at school. Is this the good child syndrome that s talked about ? While I understand that he is going through a phase, I am worried I will lose a handle on him and won t be able to guide him in the future when he needs it. My fear is thing rebellious behavior gets worse. Can you please help ?