Hi Zia, I can understand your distress regarding ejaculating much earlier than you desire. You seem to be suffering from premature ejaculation. It is a condition when a male ejaculates earlier than desired which leads to dissatisfaction in sexual intercourse in either the person or his partner. It is recommended that you seek a psychiatric consultation. Treatment for premature ejaculation involves medications and behavior therapy. The best response occurs when both are used together. The outcome will be even more favorable if your sexual partner participates in the behavior therapy sessions. Medications would include selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors like paroxetine (daily) or dapoxetine on as required basis. Behavior therapy sessions would incorporate relaxation training, sex education and learning methods like squeeze technique, start-stop method and distraction. The sessions can be done once weekly and 6-10 sessions can be required depending on your progress. Hope this information was helpful. Best wishes.