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Suggest Treatment For Premature Ejaculation

I hv sex with my wife once in three/six months as she is a mental patient and suffering from dual personality syndrome and some months together she will fight,scream,and hate me through out as i am not a good looking chap and could never satisfy her sexual desire. she is pretty and i honestly love her. normally i satisfy my needs by maturbating twice in a week by seeing porn and if i get her in a good mood by chance once in a while and get an opportunity to have sex with my wife , since i like her a lot i become extremely excited and she too starts getting wet within minutes but the moment i insert into her completely wet vagina i can hardly hold myself not more than a minute or so and than the whole disaster come to my way to stop talking or looking at each other another six months. i am now staying alone as she has decided not to stay with me anymore but didn't get a divorce as well bcs of her complete financial dependency on me . My friends and well wishers are always insisting me for 2nd marriage but I don't have any confidence for re-marrige since the under performance feeling haunts me everytime.i am quiet successful in my career and now 38 yrs old..but feel like i am good for nothing and a dead soul living for no purpose.Can u help..if there is any medicine which can really help me to become meaningful again....
Tue, 17 Jun 2014
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Thank you for asking HCM
I have gone through your query.A lot of people have the problem of premature ejaculation.Avoid anxiety.Have confidence on yourself.You can try some of the methods i mention.You can deviate your thoughts to some thing else non sexual thoughts when u think about nearing ejaculation itself.Another helping thing is put on a condom.You can use anesthetic cream or spray or a condom with anesthetic which can prolong your time.You can change the position to a non high sensitizing position.Rear entry positions are highly sensitizing so avoid initially.Go on stimulating your partner to the higher extent before stimulate your self.If all these not helping then you can approach a urologist or sex therapist or psycologist for drug therapy and behavioral therapy.Hope this may help you.
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Suggest Treatment For Premature Ejaculation

Hi Thank you for asking HCM I have gone through your query.A lot of people have the problem of premature ejaculation.Avoid anxiety.Have confidence on yourself.You can try some of the methods i mention.You can deviate your thoughts to some thing else non sexual thoughts when u think about nearing ejaculation itself.Another helping thing is put on a condom.You can use anesthetic cream or spray or a condom with anesthetic which can prolong your time.You can change the position to a non high sensitizing position.Rear entry positions are highly sensitizing so avoid initially.Go on stimulating your partner to the higher extent before stimulate your self.If all these not helping then you can approach a urologist or sex therapist or psycologist for drug therapy and behavioral therapy.Hope this may help you. Let me know if you have any further query.