Hi Thank you for asking HCM. I have gone through your query. Premature ejaculation is a common condition now adays. You don t need to worry about that. Your problem is most likely from anxiety. Get rid of your anxiety and make your self relaxed. You can do squeeze and stop technique., thought changing when about to near ejaculation , using condom with anesthetic and change to position which give less sensation to penis. If this is not helping then you can approach a psychologist for behavioral therapy. If that is also not helping then SSRI drugs like dapoxetine will be helpful. Hope this may help you. Let me know if anything not clear. Thanks.