Hallow Madam,

Desire for sex is an inherited property no doubt, however, the impact of surroundings, mental preparation, attitude, thoughts in the family and peers, etc. have got a lot of influence on the attitude for the sex. You can develop interest in sex by taking active interest and participation not only physically in the sexual act but even mentally in sexual life altogether. Do not consider this as a dirty or unpias act, instead consider it as an enjoyable pias act which brings the two partners closer.

Everyday, the erotic stimulation points on the women's body shift to different organs. Please tell you husband to explore them everyday, you demand and guide him and start enjoying that exploration as a part of the game. This also will improve your sexual attitude.

Touching the woman's private part dry causes lot of discomfort which may take away women's sexual interest. Tell your husband to use some water based jelly or vaginal jelly available in the market before he touches your private parts.

A lot of body play gradually increase the sexual desire and interest. You should demand to which part you want more handling during sex.

And finally, onion, garlic and a combination of Urad & Rice is described to increase sexual desire and performance. Many South Indian recipes contain this combination; e.g. idaly, dosa, uttapa, medi wada, etc. You may try them.

I hope this much information will guide you positively. If you want to have any more discussion on this, you may ask me Direct Question by going to my profile.