Good hospital My name is Paula and I am a 52 year old female. due to trauma from moving my deceased husband s bed to which the headboard came apart, I flew across the room hitting my head, neck shoulder hip down the right side of my body. I sustained 2 herniated discs and other injuries however the only surgery that one performed was a fusion with a cadaver disc, titanium plate and screw to C 4-5. The remaining herniation is at C 7-8. Anyway, My 50 year husbands stokes and death, taking care of him and then having his sister taking POA away while myself and my two sons came home from college and medical school to help ending up leaving us pennyless, I m in daily pain from headaches, neck pain, bilateral hand numbness and numerous mental conditions. All the medications I take causes either constipation or diarrhea. My gastroenterologist instrusted my to use Fiberco and Miralax Daily, Laxatives and stool softners as needed and Lomotil PRN, This can be Quite embarrassing and emotionally demoralizing. After many nights of diarrhea in my sheets, I turned to adult diapers and protective bed covers. I have a new boyfriend and its only a matter of time before we ll want to spend nights together. How can I possible become regular. There are days where evertime I go the the batheroom even to empty my bladder, I wipe and there is stool. I doo hope you have some suggestion, Very Frustated, Paula Fragola