Hello Thanks for query. You have problem of night emission and getting discharge of clear fluid and getting erection while engaged in talking to woman It is normal and natural to get night emission at the age of adolescence and nothing to be worried about it . As regards getting erection and discharge of fluid from urethra is due to excessive sexual stimulation leading to secretion of mucus by mucus secreting glands located in urethra .This is not abnormal and will get resolved of its own without any treatment . You have to allay your anxiety Following measure will help you to boost up your confidence and resolve these problems . 1) Practice regular exercise for 45 minutes followed by meditation for 1/2 an hour in the morning. 2) Take high protein diet rich in vegetables and fruits and Vitamin A,C,D,E.and Zinc 3)Take anti oxidants like Almonds 5-6 everyday.. Dr.Patil.