i have been suffering from cold spells, sweats, vomiting, weakness and the past two days numbness in both hands in the fingertips which i cant feel anything, they are tingly and now, like last night, i keep them elevated over my heart, which helps. i will be 49 in December and scared, thought it might be menopause symptoms but had my period last month, also my bod aches all over and i am oh so moody, please can you help