Hi Sir,

I am Rajeev from hyderabad.I have been in love relationship with a girl for the past 3 years.We had many loving and intimate moments spent together.She was working in vizag,700 km away from hyderabad.I used to travel every montto h to vizag,just to have personal moments with her.I stayed there in hotels everytime and she used to stay wid me and we also had physical relation in the past 3 years,nearly 100s of tyms.We also used to fight a lot and I hv also scolded her and abused her many a tyms,coz she was not offering the level of care n attention,one should expect after pouring his the best care and love for sum1.I have never thought of myself once..always tried to treat her as my wife.Since.last year things became sour and she started abusing and humiliating me every time,I called her.she stopped calling me and if at all I ask,she said I was sleeping as have night shifts in HSBC.So,I stopped calling her in weekdays,as to allow her to take a complete nap and rest.but in weekends she didnt turn up and abusing me for calling n disturbing her.I tried many attempts to bind the relation and visited vizag,just to make her feel happy.Whenever,I stayed in vizag,she behaved normally,but when i came back to hyd after every visit,she started behaving in the same rude manner.Ultimately,a month back we both planned to tel her parents,but accidently I sent a normal loving msg to her parent and would-be in laws number,which were told to be her numbers.Then I came to know,that she is already engaged in feb2011,but she kept showing love in all these days.Later,her she filed a police complaint against me and stated that I have broken her marriage and harassed her for the past 3 years.I have been suffering with severe tension and depression for the past 6-8 months.Later,matched all the symptons of depression with mine.How can she marry another person and why did she keep me in dark.I have devoted all my tym,emotions to her.How can she allow her husband to touch her...really sick I m.I kept on thinking those loving and intimate moments and wonder that what kind of person she is.I made my mind 100s of tyms to leave her,seeing her attrocities and behaviou in the past 1 year,but bothered abt her lyf,coz I had physical relation wid her and how could I leave her like her.but she has never thought of those things.I have lost my likings,personality,everything.thinking to end my lyf,coz the pain inside is haunting me every moment.My family is insisting me to get married,but I am doubtful abt my love for would-be.moreover,I concerned abt my virginity and expectations of my would-be.I cant face her being a non-virgin.I dnt want to spoil that innocent lady’s lyf.