I was in a relationship after my divorce for eight years with a man my age who I fell in love with. I never was able to be myself in my marriage like I was with him. I ended up caring and loving him so much that I did everything to be there for him. He started looking for other women and hiding it. I felt worthless after that but never left him. He left to have a relationship with a woman he was in love with, but he kept telling me he really loved me and cared fro me. I ended up just being there for him until he destroyed my heart. I just could not let him go, Im working on it...I never been with anyone else since I met him. I keep on helping him when he asks me to. I know now that he just wants me to be his friend, but I told him I can t be a friend after he destroyed my heart and made me cry so much.