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my boyfriend who is 45 admits he has a problem with masterbation & has since he was young. He claims when he was picked on for being skinny & girls stopped interest in him in 7th & 8th grade he began to masterbate. He lacked self esteem in his body image as a man until he was 21 & entered the Air Force. He was previously married for 12 years to a woman who had been raped & wasn't comfortable having sex. He went as long as 9 months without sex with his wife. This caused more masterbation problems. He claims he's on a 5 to 6 wk cycle where he has to masterbate bec. the pressure bec. so intense he thinks his penis will explode off. He claims it's like having to pee soo bad it's painful. What can he do to stop. He wants to but hasn't found answers. Hypnosis? does this really work? Other thoughts please?
Hi You have not mentioned your sex life with your boy friend. Is he comfortable in doing sex with you? He is indulging in masturbation because he fears he may not be able to satisfy the partner. You can help him by encouraging regular vaginal sex . If you tell your sex life in detail, I may be able to help you more DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA
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Hi You have not mentioned your sex life with your boy friend. Is he comfortable in doing sex with you? He is indulging in masturbation because he fears he may not be able to satisfy the partner. You can help him by encouraging regular vaginal sex . If you tell your sex life in detail, I may be able to help you more DR SAATIISH JHUNTRRAA