Dear service user, Thank you for contacting Healthcaremagic. Hi, I have gone through your question and understand your concerns to delay the ejaculation. You told that you discharged after rubbing penis 5 to 6 times with bed during masturbation. There is no specific time period defined for ejaculatory delay. It greatly varies from person to person. Let me tell you that avoid sticking to time (for example 5 min, 6 min ,xxx minutes) or even number of strokes, rubs etc. Focus on pleasurable sensations during erections rather than judging your performance in terms of time or strokes. Simply enjoy the feelings and touch of kindling. This happens sometimes for men, when they start sex with a particular partner, the initial arousal level is very high so he reaches orgasm quickly and emission occurs. But, this situation gradually declines over a period of time. Hence, if an individual is reaching orgasm/climax early, he is likely to experience a little delay in subsequent encounters. When clients with similar problems approach me, I recommend them a behavior exercise called start-stop technique. The man starts masturbation and stops just prior to orgasmic inevitability. He allows arousal level to decline and re-stimulates. One should continue this start-stop sequence for about 15 minutes. This is how you can gain ejaculatory control gradually. Hope, I have answered your question properly. If you have any further questions I will be happy to help. Wish you good health.