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Dear doctor, I was a virgin, never touched. I got married and when he penetrates me, to open the vagina, receive terrible pain even get scarred....my partner is giving me a foreplay by licking it and touching it with the finger. I sometimes get uncomertable by both ways... waiting for reply
Hi I understand your concern and would like to help you in the best possible way. Intercourse initially may be uncomfortable but gradually it usually becomes comfortable on its own.This condition is called Vaginismus. It will be best to talk to your partner and communicate clearly what you are comfortable with. You can try putting a finger in your vagina to help you become comfortable initially and gradually add another finger which will help your vagina dilate and get you used to your partner's penis gradually. Also try to not be too stressed about it during intercourse as it will further tense your muscles and become more painful. With such measures within a few weeks you will be comfortable with intercourse.
Hope this answers your question. If you have additional questions or follow up questions then please do not hesitate in writing to us. I will be happy to answer your questions.
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Suggest Remedy For Pain During Intercourse
Hi I understand your concern and would like to help you in the best possible way. Intercourse initially may be uncomfortable but gradually it usually becomes comfortable on its own.This condition is called Vaginismus. It will be best to talk to your partner and communicate clearly what you are comfortable with. You can try putting a finger in your vagina to help you become comfortable initially and gradually add another finger which will help your vagina dilate and get you used to your partner s penis gradually. Also try to not be too stressed about it during intercourse as it will further tense your muscles and become more painful. With such measures within a few weeks you will be comfortable with intercourse. Hope this answers your question. If you have additional questions or follow up questions then please do not hesitate in writing to us. I will be happy to answer your questions. Wishing you good health.