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Hi, me and my boyfriend been dating for a while and we ve had sex like 5 times and i don t know if its because hes a little unexperienced or maybe its just me that can t have an orgasm. He gives me time so i can cum as much as i want but it just doesnt feel like im having sex. I just feel his penis inside going in and out. Maybe theres something wrong with me.. Im so disappointed of sex right now. I thought it would be the greatest thing as others say
Hi, Thanks for writing to HCM. Well, after going through the description you have posted, it appears that you have more of psychological problem than medical problem. You should understand that initially, for the first few times, many women feel the same what you are felling. Gradually, you start experiencing good amount of orgasm. You need to get psychologically involved in the act to experience orgasms than just physical involvement. As proper lubrication is one of the factor to achieve good orgasm, spend more time in foreplay so that you have good amount of lubrication. Also you can use liquid based lubricants. Also, if there is any fault in the technique, that needs to be rectified. Hope the information provided would be useful. All the best.
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Hi, Thanks for writing to HCM. Well, after going through the description you have posted, it appears that you have more of psychological problem than medical problem. You should understand that initially, for the first few times, many women feel the same what you are felling. Gradually, you start experiencing good amount of orgasm. You need to get psychologically involved in the act to experience orgasms than just physical involvement. As proper lubrication is one of the factor to achieve good orgasm, spend more time in foreplay so that you have good amount of lubrication. Also you can use liquid based lubricants. Also, if there is any fault in the technique, that needs to be rectified. Hope the information provided would be useful. All the best.