Dear, Welcome to HCM We understand your concerns I went through your details. Erectile dysfunction (ED) or impotence is sexual dysfunction characterized by the inability to develop or maintain an erection of the penis during sexual activity. Having erection trouble from time to time isn t necessarily a cause for concern. If erectile dysfunction is an ongoing issue, however, it can cause stress, affect your self-confidence and contribute to relationship problems. You have to address yourself. You are having this ED for just one month. You should review, when this started and what was your physical or mental condition when this started. If you are stressed, anxious or physically tired, naturally erection may not happen. Forcing erection could collapse the erection itself and you get anxious again. Due to the anxiety you try harder and harder for erection, but as it never happens, you get anxious again. This cycle goes on and on. Therefore I suggest, do not try to indulge yourself in sex for another week. Enjoy the whole week with your wife and child. Then, after a week, when you and your wife are stress and anxiety free, try sex. You will succeed. You may consult a psychologist or sexologist for counseling. If you require more of my help in this aspect, please use this URL. http://goo.gl/aYW2pR. Make sure that you include every minute detail possible. Hope this answers your query. Further clarifications are welcome. Good luck. Happy New Year. Take care.