Respected Dan hi I evaluated your query thoroughly . * As per your narration it falls in category of prolapsed internal hemorrhoid or infected anal boil . * Any self maneuver will put you in more problems * Follow certain guidelines as below for better recovery - manage your diet with plenty of liquids, green leafy vegetables, whole grains to get soft stools on regular basis - avoid oily / spicy / non vegetarian stuffs at present - Sitz bath ( sitting in a tub filled with lukewarm water for 10-10 minutes morning , evening , specifically after passing stool ) helps a lot - local application of Xylocaine (5%) jelly gives soothing - keep the area clean - avoid sitting for prolong periods on hard surfaces - avoid smoking / alcohol / any abuse substances - in our clinic after clinical evaluations according to the case need we prescribe certain antibiotics, anti-inflammatory agents with stool softeners to provide faster healing Hope this clears your query . Welcome for any further assistance . Thanks for using Healthcaremagic.com & giving us an opportunity to assist Wishing you fine recovery from the same. Regards dear take care .