Dear service user, Thanks for contacting healthcaremagic. I read your question and understand that you are stessed regarding not having proper erections. To help you in the best way, one needs proper history regarding your problem to understand cause of erectile problem in your case. There are many reasons leading to erectile dysfunction. Other common causes of erectile dysfunction are:- 1. Diabetes 2. Some medicines like anti depressants and anti psychotics 3. Performance anxiety (the most common) 4. Alcohol use 5. Smoking Mostly it is due to stress and anxiety. Discuss in detail about your problems with your treating Doctor. First erectile failure due to any reason leads one to be worried about next sexual encounter. One focuses constantly on how do i perform . This leads to anxiety and difficulty in erection in subsequent sexual activities. One’s anxiety goes on increasing with every ‘failure’. There are medicines which can significantly improve erectile dysfunction, but they should be taken only under medical supervision. I hope this will help you. If you have additional questions or follow up questions then please feel free to write to us. I will be happy to answer your questions. Wish you good sexual health ahead.