my husband has sleep apena, father died from a heart attack and he has been holding the right side of his upper belly on the side area. he is 54 and colloring to poor, ash color and I can not get him to a doctor, I am very scared for him, I feel he is a ticking time bomb plus he now has angry outbursts, which scare me to. What can I say od do to help him? Thank you,Candy