Hi there ~
There are two things to think about here - depression
. Either ways I understand that it is a difficult phase for you to go through along with your husband. I think that the stress
is taking over you to the point where it is affecting your relationship and work. It would require to seek treatment. Anxiety is the most common psychiatric problem in the world and seeking the help of a qualified psychiatrist
would be the first step in that direction. I hope this helps.
Take care and have a lovely day !