Welcome to HCM.
HIV risk following an oral sex
is very low as per CDC, Atlanta.
Oraquick test will be more confirmatory after 8-12 weeks. So it is better to repeat it after another 6 weeks.
and swollen glands are feature of ordinary throat infection
due to a viral or bacterial infection. Weight loss
is not an early manifestation of HIV.
So you need not worry.
Get well soon.