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Should I Continue Or Stop The Marriage Relationship?

Hi ! I am married for 9 months now. My husband and I married against our families' wish. But now my husband's loyalties have changed completely, and I feel like an outsider between him and his family. There is hardly any interaction between us now. I have also quit a flourishing career for this marriage. Is walking out of this marriage the only solution now?
Tue, 8 Sep 2015
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General & Family Physician 's  Response
Hi,
Thanks for posting in HCM.
It is unfortunate to note that your Husband's loyalties have changed completely and treating you as an outsider.
But before you take the decision of walking out, speak to your Husband once with one to one interaction, as you both need to live together happily for long. Also because, as you say, marriage has taken place against your families wish, they do not have much active role to play to decide the future of your family life.
If there are any small things which could emerge out and could be settled down, kindly do it with mutual agreement.
In case, you explore all possibilities and you run out of option, taking divorce would be an ideal option.
Hope the information provided would be useful.
All the best.
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General & Family Physician Dr. Michelle Gibson James's  Response
HI, thanks for using healthcare magic

You may want to try counselling first before considering dissolving the marriage, this should be the first option.

You would need to first discuss this with your husband.

I hope this helps
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Should I Continue Or Stop The Marriage Relationship?

Hi, Thanks for posting in HCM. It is unfortunate to note that your Husband s loyalties have changed completely and treating you as an outsider. But before you take the decision of walking out, speak to your Husband once with one to one interaction, as you both need to live together happily for long. Also because, as you say, marriage has taken place against your families wish, they do not have much active role to play to decide the future of your family life. If there are any small things which could emerge out and could be settled down, kindly do it with mutual agreement. In case, you explore all possibilities and you run out of option, taking divorce would be an ideal option. Hope the information provided would be useful. All the best.