back in 09 my child's mother and I broke up and I had unprotected sex with this girl I was seeing. Almost immediately I had redness on the glands of my penis, random darger red spots. sometime i would notice a prick right in the center of the gland of my penis and look at it and theres a pretty dark red spot, then I would check it half hour later and its gone. I noticed that would happen once or twice a week. Also I would have cloudy vision and be impatient, foggy mind tired and grumpy alot. over time the symptoms became less and I had unprotected sex with my childs mother again. then we broke up again so I hadnt had sex in a while and seemed like i wasn't having any problems anymore until I had sex with my childs mother again (I know our relationship is rocky lol) and now the symptoms are back and I have had had an appendectomy done and also had a really bad finger infection so I have been on full spectrum iv antibiotics and I dont think its bacteria or viral. although the cloudy vision, foggy mind may go away on its own, the redness and red spots on the glands of my penis has never stopped and seem to have a very faint ring on it suggesting ringworm, also have always had thick clear fluid in urethra. I have enrolled in college and my my just isn;t shart enougI dont have the mental focus I need and need some help. thanks