Hi, thanks for writing..
Dont worry.. Dont be in a haste to have intercourse.. You need a proper counselling
with a sexologist
. First insert 1 lubricated finger into vagina. repeat it for a week till there is no pain. Then 2 lubricated finger of yours. continue this for a week. Then try the same with your husband's fingers for a week. Then engage in sexual intercourse after a foreplay and adequate lubrication. Proper relaxation and breathing exercise
to relieve tension and fear. Hope I have answered your queries. good day.