Hi there ~ I understand your concern. Pain and burning while urination is a common symptom of a urinary tract infection and rarely a sexually transmitted disease. It might be helpful to get your urine tested and keep yourself plentifully hydrated with liquids. A bruised urethra should heal in about 7 - 10 days otherwise. Firstly you might need to consult an psychiatrist to find out if you have any difficulties in your libido or have other mental health concerns like depression. Otherwise, you have a very common problem of erectile dysfunction and / or premature ejaculation and it can be easily treated with medications available during this time. The class of medication is called phosphodiesterase 5 inhibitors (PDE5Inh) selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors and it also helps with decreased libido which is a result of depression if you are going through one. I advise you to consult with a qualified psychiatrist who might be able to help in this regard. I hope this helps. Take care and have a lovely day!