HI. My main problem is that, even though I am in my mid 40 s, I still feel like a little kid in the sense that I feel I need people s approval to do things, or feel like I am going to be judged or yelled at by others if I mess something up (even if I have done the best I could) This brings me to have frequent anxiety, as I am always worrying about what others are going to be saying, or if I am going to be in trouble It can be work related, things at home. And most people don t even imagine I go through this, not only because I hide what I feel, but I am very outgoing and an overcomer. I have taken care of my dad when he was sick, help my mom, raise my kids, and am a leader in academic competitions, have a professional degree, so I don t think those around me even begin to imagine how very insecure I am