My son is 20yrs old and has been a great kid has his Eagle Scout ...was ready for college and had a part time job.. but now he stays in his room doesn't get up in the morning to help me I own my own business and offer him work, sometimes he is good with this but other times he just won't get up.. don't think drugs are involved but he does play video games on line and mostly reads books.. I wonder if he may be depressed...He lives with his mother not me she is overbearing but I have always been the catalyst between the two... there is no problems with anger and he is very intelligent but I have noticed he has no friends to speak of he seems like everything is ok when were together. This is an on and off situation that is not getting any better....