I asked a question a few weeks ago about my son, i have been told he has a heart murmur and that i had to bring him back for a check up. We have gone and it is still there. He is going to be reffered to a specialist now due to this but im still worried as i thought it would have gone by now. I know it could just be a innocent murmur but im now think what if its not. My son is only 7 years old. He is olso getting reffered to a specialist about his tonsils as he needs them out too, he is going to be going through a lot and i just need to be strong for him. Any help on what i have said would be greatful. i know having his tonsils out is not big deal. I have heart problems so im going to worry about him and he does not know much really to do with his heart i just said he needs to get it checked by another doctor . I just think this is a lot for a 7 year old to go through. i have had a few heart op s myself. I just think its a parent thing worrying really.