My husbands mother was a hoarder and he and his siblings have inherited this. We have been together 38 years or more. We bought a family farm-as is-prior to a family auction that he purchased everything. He co-owns the home his parents owned, his father grew up on the family farm. The farm is an excellent example of throw nothing away. This includes a line up of farm implements and trucks. My home is now at the point where I can no longer "dictate" the boundaries of his part and mine. Our backyard is terrible! His mother also planted plants and trees that I consider scrub trees. She did not believe in getting rid of trees! I need help.