Dude, i just broke up with a girl i thought i was going to marry. It's been really difficult. Nothing i say can really pull you out of it, but you can. The thing that has helped me is keeping really really busy. Two workouts a day, constantly hanging out with friends. Im a student and i also work so that helps keep me busy as well. Im really sorry man, but honestly there are so many women in this world that will fit you and love you for who you are. hang in there because with time you will start to see that this is in fact a good thing. Best wishes friend.
Ok, it is sad that today such people are there who does not have any value for love. Only materialistic things are important for them. Now you should feel happy only because even if you had married her, there would have been more suffering only. It is good to get seperated from such people as early as possible. Be happy that the time has come. Move forward for a Much Brighter Life with a Better Person.
2. Denial - we dont believe that it really happened
3. Rationalization - We give reasons for our mistakes to make ourselves feel good
4. Acceptance - We truely accept the reality and live with it.
Most of us dont reach this 4th stage at all, cause we all want to live life how we want it to be. Not adjusting to how it is. The real trick is to accept the fact and live with it. You will be the happiest and successful person on this EARTH. Keep yourself busy and motivated. Do things which u have never done before so that you need to concentrate on it. Travel to different places. Meet new people. Do things which makes you happy.
I apologize in advance if this is not the correct forum for this. I was tested with the oraquick advance. I was told by the staff that a very faint line was detected for a positive result. I was then told that a blood test would be needed but not to worry because this has happened on more than one occasion and the blood test would more than likely come back negative. I shared my sexual history with them and they feel confident that I will have a negative blood test. I am concerned for my girlfriend as the reason for the visit was that the condom broke during sex and she asked if I would get tested along with her. They suggested I don t search the internet as I would put myself into more of an emotional mess as I clearly lost it with tears and fears for her safety. I guess I m asking a second opinion on this. Thank you.
10 months ago...i broke up wid her.... i loved her a lot....still do the same...but she left me...for her ex widout any reason....now i am having panic attacks of her memories..and my left brain pains a lot..like it will burst out....today i am weak...low in confidence...no self respect...underestimate myself......lost my smile and my tears too....dont know wat to do...i want to study....but cant concentrate...help..plz..
hi, i am a 27 years old man, recently 3 months ago i had a break up with my girlfreind.i had several time physical relationship with her. since it occured, due to this now i am thinking frequently may be she got pregnent and dont want to let me know about it.our breakup was happened due to our personal behavior and my family agresiveness towards her.But instead of the fact knowing i frequenly thinks that she might get pregnent.i cannot concentrate on my regular life always finding and thinking repeatedly the incidents occured between us. always try to relate the things occured during our last quarrel even knowing the real fact that breakup as happened because she dont like my parent because she had insulted by them. But knowing all the causes i am thinking that she was pregnent. one thing i like to tell that few years back i was suffering from OCD due to the same reason that happened with my 1st ex girlfriend. i have searched all the details about how a girl can be pregnent,there also i did not relate the thing accurately.Please do me feber let me know how can this thought be stoped.you may be thinking why dont i ask to my girlfriend.The fact is i dont want to call her again and dont want to ask this thing as i am not assure.Please tell me cure process.