Hi my name is TJ3, I noticed a lump in my groin about 5 days ago and today blood and pus came out of it. I believed it was a swollen lymph node, until today when I saw the blood and pus. I had been having sex with the same person for almost 8 months until we broke up recently (she was a virgin and I was her first, 8 months ago). Two weeks before the lump appeared I received oral sex from a girl who had not had sex in six months and had no STD or STI previous to our engagement. Can you tell me what's going on?