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Is there something wrong with me having this sexual problem at 23 years old?

I'm turning 23 in 1 week and I'm engaged. I'm very much in love with and attracted to my fiance but we're having problems in the bedroom. I have no sex drive whatsoever. I have never even masturbated a day in my life. I have little to no interest in sex, never really have. I often have to force myself to get in the mood. The sex with my fiance is fantastic but I have to force myself for it to get to that point. I feel awful about this and he does too. Is there something wrong with me having this problem at 23 years old?
Asked On : Sun, 17 Jan 2010
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  Anonymous's Response

I think you will need to take a psychiatric consultation. At your age due to apprehension and thoughts about performance may make you fell like should be fine after a counselling session.

Answered: Sun, 17 Jan 2010
  User's Response
Dear Friend,

Welcome to HealthcareMagic Forum.

Lack of desire may be due to
1. Decreased pleasure / Orgasms
2. Stress and Strain
3. Medications
4. Vaginismus (Painful Intercourse)
Answered: Tue, 26 Apr 2011
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  User's Response
I'm 18 and having the same type of issues. I'd like to be more into it but I just am not. I fear it may be ruining my relationship..what should i do now??plz help me out..
Answered: Sat, 26 Mar 2011
  User's Response
I'm 24 and having the same type of issues. I'd like to be more into it but I just am not. I fear it may be ruining my relationships and I know sex drive often gets worse as you get older and this scares me! Let me know if you had any luck
Answered: Thu, 12 Aug 2010
  User's Response
Hi im 22 years old and im experiencing the same problem... I have no sex drive... i have been seeking information but nothing seems to be helping my situation...
Answered: Mon, 19 Jul 2010
  User's Response
Maybe lack of hormones?
Answered: Fri, 23 Jul 2010
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