Doctor ,My husband is a doctor.married for 7 years now. I have never seen my husbands flaccid penis. he shows it to me once it is erect and put up his underwear and pants once sex is over. I think it is less than 7cm. Then he lay straight. He dont hold my hands or anything. He sleeps in a separate room. He touches me only for sex. He likes macho stars. His voice is like that of a woman. He shouts at me and abuses me. He likes oral sex . but i dont.i think he is gay. how can i know ? He likes touching his penis and his buttock. he likes spitting into my mouthand i dont like it. he tells me to put my tongue into his mouth. He dont have love and respect for his mother also. He used to ask me what will be my mother thinking now when he penetrates into me. I find all these weird.