Hello She sucked your nipples ( duration not matters ) . There is no conclusive evidence that saliva can transmit HIV infection , either through kissing or through other exposures, such as occupationally sex care workers. Now hand jobs with cut , if her fingers were contaminated with HIV infection ,there are chance of getting HIV infection , because of cuts. Now the cause of concern is after 2-3 weeks you developed few symptoms which are an indication of HIV infection . Fever , rash stomach upsets, LYMPHADENOPATHY . Any how now get in antigen antibody tests . Nucleic acid amplification test (NAT) as early as possible and deal according to the results of tests. 2nd point take precaution and take antiretroviral drugs just for precaution . So consult a nearby HIV treatment center and take these measures. Good luck.