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There is need to find out irritability of your husband towards you. Why did he feel that you are mad, need exploration.
Common reasons for Marital discord are adjustment problem, disliking of partner and psychological issues in one or both partners.
Some time it is difficult to solve problem by yourself like in your case. In such case professional help from marital counselor or Psychologist
will be helpful.
Same time you may need treatment for depression
(if present) to adjust in current circumstances.
Wish you good health and all the best.
Dr Ashish Kumar Mittal