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I am still virgin at 13? what do you think?

Is it normal to still be a virgin at 13? Now days at my age almost every 1 start to have sex .i m quit sky on this.., or 'say i m slow , So, what do you think? Tks, :].
Asked On : Tue, 22 Dec 2009
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  User's Response
Your virginity is your dignity. Just a few years when all the girls have had sex, the boys will only be wanting the girls who haven't had sex. The virgins will be the popular ones. Save yourself for marriage honey. You are worth more than a cheap experience with a little boy. Be proud of your stance against sex. Be like Miley Cyrus and the Jonas brothers. Last time I checked they were virgins and proud of it. Please wait. I will be praying for you. Good luck sweetie.
Answered: Tue, 22 Dec 2009
  User's Response

Personally i think 13 is too young!!!  U have a long time ahead of U, and plenty of time for that later.  This is ur time to just hang out with friends and enjoy being young without cares or big responsibility.  Cause trust me, sex is a huge responsibility!!!!  I am 25 now, and sometimes i dont want to respinsibility of it!!!  Good luck hun!

Answered: Sat, 23 Jan 2010
  User's Response

Oh god, no way. When did 13 become the norm for having sex? It's ok, being a virgin doesn't mean you're a goody-goody or anything. In fact, in means you respect your body enough to make the right choices. 13 is way too young to have sex. Wait till you're in college at the earliest.

Answered: Thu, 21 Jan 2010
  Anonymous's Response

you should buy new shoes from wal mart that helps

Answered: Fri, 14 May 2010
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Answered: Wed, 29 Sep 2010
  Anonymous's Response

omg you are way tooooooo young to have sex...... Please dont ever do something cause everyone else is.... you need to wait

Answered: Sat, 30 Jan 2010
  User's Response

Yes it is im 19 an a male i was a virgin till i graduated high school at 18 so its normal i know people will make fun of you for it but girls or women like guys who dont have sex with alot of men an vise versa.

Answered: Sun, 28 Feb 2010
  Anonymous's Response

It is absolutely o.k. to be a virgin at 13.  I can guarantee that not everyone who says their having sex is actually having sex.


Deciding to have sex is a personal decision.  Don't let what other people are doing influence your decisions.

Answered: Wed, 27 Jan 2010
  Anonymous's Response

I was 16, and when i was 13.....I also lied about having sex just like im sure they all are.

Answered: Mon, 22 Feb 2010
  User's Response

Wait till college, or even longer. Don't want STD's. My friend who sleeps around a lot has herpes and pisses out green sludge (yeah he tells me this). Sex is for lovers, not short relationships.

Answered: Sat, 15 May 2010
  Anonymous's Response
yes im 15 and im a virgin and proud my sister got pregnant at 13 and she had to suffer alot you really dont want to be a mother before your really a teen
Answered: Fri, 23 Jul 2010
  User's Response

13 is the age where you are no longer a little girl and its time to start thinking about your transition into womanhood.  take on this transition with integrity and self respect for your future..... you only have this one body, and the one time to lose the gift for someone special. i guarantee woman who lost their virginity in high school regret it. for many reasons. the pleasure level is low becasue of the lack of respect as a person, the connection isnt there, std, pregnancy, rumors and bullshit.  ......i know i do,,, save it for a man and focus on finding your true self now.  figure out what makes you tick and set up your future for a real man to come along. all women deserve more than a boy

Answered: Fri, 14 May 2010
  User's Response
no ur very odd go fuck all u can and 13 the best age to start at dont wait till collage any one that says that is a dumb virgin like josh croteau
Answered: Sun, 3 Oct 2010
  User's Response

No it is not weird actually it is strange that most teens that age are doing that. They are too young for that now. No just wait for the lucky one. If you are a guy then wait for the right girl and show her what you can do. 

Answered: Fri, 14 May 2010
  User's Response

I was 18 and had been with my boyfriend for 2 and a 1/2 years before we decided to have sex. You are not at all too young to be a virgin. Sex is great but it's so much greater when it is with someone who you can see yourself being with forever and when you are old enough to have had the opportunity to meet those kind of people, which in my opinion is college at least. On another note, your body isn't ready for sex. at 13 there are hormones that are still going crazy and it makes things more complicated. Just remember that you should wait and have sex when you are ready for a baby because even if you are careful, which you always should be, things can happen. I am a 21 year old single mom and I have been on birth control for years. Be smart and respect yourself and you won't doubt when its right :)

Answered: Sun, 31 Jan 2010
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