Hello and welcome to Healthcare Magic. Thanks for your query. I understand that you are quite distressed about your sexual problem. From the description of your symptoms, it appears that you may be suffering from premature ejaculation. Very often the cause is due to excessive anxiety and fear regarding sexual performance (what is called performance anxiety ). Now, the first and most important step in management of this problem is proper evaluation. This will include a detailed medical, sexual, personal and social history, a thorough physical examination and certain investigations, as per the necessity. Only if the cause is identified correctly, appropriate treatment can be given. So, I would advise you to see a psychiatrist in your place for a detailed evaluation and further treatment. Treatment will involve sexual counselling and in some cases, medication can also be helpful. Wish you all the best. Regards, Dr. Jonas Sundarakumar Consultant Psychiatrist