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How to move on after the death of a loved one?

my mom died of a massive heart attack last month and im still having a hard time dealing with it please help? my mom died of a massive heart attack last month and im still having a hard time dealing with it please help?
Wed, 16 Dec 2009
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Oh, I'm so sorry! It takes a long time to get over something like this, especially when it was unexpected. It won't always hurt as much as it does now. You need to be able to talk, cry, or do whatever helps you.
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