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How To Increase Sexual Drive?
Hi doc let me get2d point..my girl friend is a virgin & we ve decided2 blow d cherry but she fears tht it l b painful & blood etc wud come etc etc cuz she heard 4rm her friends tht it l b very painful so she wont let but she honestly want me2 have her chastity cuz she loves me a lot n as we r breakin up cuz of certain family issues..so we want2 knw if she can take sm drug or herbal..jst 4 one time so tht she l instantly be horny & enjoy d moment even if it l b painful but totaly forget or not at all remember wht happnd last nite & stil feel she is a virgin so tht she wont feel d guilt after her marriage wid d guy her parents set up...can dis b possible??e
Mon, 24 Nov 2014
Hello,
Thank you for writing to HCM,
I had gone through your query and suggest you that its nothing but the fear in her mind that her friends talk about the pain. Definitely there will be pain while loosing virginity but it might be less if you do that by total care.
I would suggest that spend more time with her and make her happy for that if she really want sex with you. Because n doctor would advice to take any drug for even enjoyment. It might harmful to your body. Now if we talk about guilty than if she go for sex with you than definitely no guilty will be there.
Now if we talk about query related pain than while having sex i would like to suggest you to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse.
Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards,
Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
Thank you for writing to HCM,
I had gone through your query and suggest you that its nothing but the fear in her mind that her friends talk about the pain. Definitely there will be pain while loosing virginity but it might be less if you do that by total care.
I would suggest that spend more time with her and make her happy for that if she really want sex with you. Because n doctor would advice to take any drug for even enjoyment. It might harmful to your body. Now if we talk about guilty than if she go for sex with you than definitely no guilty will be there.
Now if we talk about query related pain than while having sex i would like to suggest you to go for foreplay and Oral sex first before you go for intercourse because it will help for pre cum and also you and your partner will have more pleasure than normal intercourse.
Even your sex desire will increase because of that and for more you may have to use different position of sex. It may gives you more satisfaction and even more excitement and total pleasure than normal intercourse.
Still if you had any queries you may concern a good doctor for more help, they may suggest you better.
Hope you will find it helpful.
Thanks & Regards,
Dr. Gaurav Prajapati
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