im a caregiver in a private home. My patient recently lost his wife. In the last week he has started masturbation and remarks to the caregivers. We as caregivers know how to handle his remarks. The family is aware and ask me should they get him a magazine or find someone to pleasure him. My thought was if you find someone to pleasure him it may cause the sexual advances towards the caregivers to increase. Ultimately I told the family that's a decision you have to make. My patient also has dementia. What do we do?