im married for 1 year and 4 months, for the first three months of being married me and my husband agrred to use contraceptive for me not to get pregnant, then he went abroad for nine months, when he arrive we decided not to use anything because we are ready to have a baby but unfortunately, he went abroad again but still we're not able to conceive a baby..any advise how to get pregnant fast? we have not see any doctor/ob gyne yet.